5 Signs That You Need To Breakup

1. He/She can’t be trusted. Trust is an important factor in any relationship you have with another person. If you do not trust a person you will constantly be on edge and you’ll never be completely comfortable within the relationship. Just like the saying goes “without trust there is no US.” Don’t allow yourself to […]

A Letter To My Discouraged Friends

“Comparison is the thief of joy” Theodore Roosevelt Dear Discouraged Friend, I know this feeling extremely well! You see others receiving promotions, degrees, becoming homeowners, and getting engaged but you’re having a tough time obtaining your goals. You’re thinking when will it be my time? Why do I feel so left behind? When I realized […]

7 Things I’ve Learned In The Year 2020

First off, no one knew that the year 2020 would take a drastic turn like this. This is a year unlike any other! Since March people all around the world have been practicing social distancing, self quarantining and wearing masks for majority of the day. No longer can we leave out of our homes without […]

The Best Life Advice I’ve Ever Received

The only thing to do with good advice is to pass it on. It is never of any use to oneself. Throughout life we have all received advice from a person that truly resonated and stuck with us. Life advice that we will most likely pass down to our friends, family and children. For me, […]

13 Must Have Fall Scented Candles For Your Home

Cinnamon, Apples, and Clove Osmanthus and amber Pumpkin Spice Pumpkin Scented Pumpkin Cream Pie Banana Nut Bread and Hazelnut Vanilla Pumpkin Pie Fresh Apple Mulled Cider Autumn, Cinnamon and Nutmeg Maple Butter Sugared Cinnamon Apple Crisp Fall Night *Xoxomissy is a part of Amazon Affiliate program where I earn a small fee if you purchase […]

15 Must Have Inspirational African-American Children’s Books

Reading and literacy are two important skills in the development of children. I am always reminding my elementary students that “Reading is literally life! You will read with everything that you do! You can’t run or hide from it!” I am super excited to share these beautifully illustrated and written books that I’ve found with […]

Most Asked Beauty Questions Answered By A Makeup Artist

Contrary to popular belief, makeup does not come easy to some woman. Some may not know how to properly apply lashes, how to choose the correct foundation for her skin type or simply the basics of makeup. The makeup world can be confusing and frustrating for a person who doesn’t know what they’re doing. Which […]

How To Create A Positivity Jar To Reduce Stress

“Think positive, Be positive <3” – One small positive thought can change your whole day – What is a Positivity Jar? It’s a jar filled with quotes, memories and sayings that are supposed to put a smile on your face. Everyone needs a pick me up sometimes which is one of the reasons why I […]

24 Things I’ve Learned At 24

In honor of my birthday which is today I decided to dedicate this blog to my new chapter in my life. The BIG 25!! I wanted to reflect on lessons that I’ve learned during year 24 and share it with you all. I wanted to start off this new chapter of my life on a […]

11 Common Superstitions Most Black People Live By

Superstitions are ways that our ancestors told stories to describe mysterious events. Growing up we have all heard the sayings “Step on a crack you will break your mothers back?” or “If you split the pole you will have bad luck.” Rather it was told by your mother, friends, or your grandmother there are tons of […]