What To Pack Inside Of Your “Spennanight” Bag
It’s finally the weekend and you just received the “come spend the night” text you’ve been waiting on all week. Now you are sitting there thinking about what you should pack inside of your “Spennanight” bag.
Don’t worry sis I got you! Keep reading to see BASIC items that every girl needs when she’s spending the night out. Comment down below any items that I may be missing 🙂
WHERE THE BAG AT….WHERE THE BAG AT??
First you need to pick your SPENNANIGHT bag…
Rather it’s a book bag, purse, or tote bag. Find a bag that is cute, affordable and has enough space to carry your belongings. Most of us have a bag hanging around the house so there is no need to buy anything new.
Keep it simple and cute sis no need to break the bank.
HOW MUCH SHOULD I PACK??
Packing to spend the night out with your boo is just like getting ready for a short trip…
What you pack depends on how long you are staying over! Don’t pack your bag as if you are staying over for a month when it’s only a weekend. We don’t want him looking at you like you’re crazy sis. Pack just enough items to get you through however many days you’ll be staying over.
Don’t bring your whole closet just the important items.
WHAT ITEMS SHOULD I BRING??
I like to keep everything inside of little bags. It looks more organized and easier to find the items you’re searching for…
- Feminine Wipes
- Soap or Body Wash
- Feminine Pads
- Bonnet and/or scarf
- Edge Control
- Brush and Comb
- Hair Ties
- Date night fit, casual fit and an extra outfit for emergencies (depends on how many days you’ll be staying over)
- Pajamas and/or Lingerie
- Shower Shoes
- Appropriate Shoe(s) for outfit
- GOOD undergarments
- Towel and Rags
- Pillow (Some men only have one. Bring your own just in case sis LOL)
- Phone Charger
Now you are packed and ready for your night out. ENJOY IT SIS!! 🙂
1. You don’t know what you want and need in a relationship. Your dating life is a train wreck because you don’t know what it is your looking for. Take the time to write out any non-negotiables and character traits you need from a significant other. When you do this it’s so much easier to … Continue reading 10 Common Dating Mistakes Single Women Make
“Self care is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation.” – Audre Lorde It’s Mental Health Awareness Month which means this month we are educating the public, spreading vital important about mental health and creating ways to continue fighting the stigma. As someone who has struggled with mental health issues such as low self esteem, anxiety and … Continue reading 9 Small Ways I’ve Been Taking Care Of My Mental Health
Encouragement For Low Self Esteem and Confidence Issues
“To the people who contributed to your sense of low self esteem will be ashamed when God gets through unleashing you. You won’t have to prove anything. God will prove it for you.” – Unknown
Low Self Esteem: A person who lacks confidence within themselves and what they can do.
Common Signs: Constant negative thoughts about yourself, depression, feeling ashamed of your physical appearance and neglecting your own needs.
I can definitely relate to anyone out there who has or is currently going through emotions of not feeling valuable or worthy. People who lack self confidence, self love and are suffering from low self esteem issues. These negative thoughts and emotions are extremely familiar to me.
Unfortunately, I was a victim of bullying and during those times I allowed others negative opinions about me pollute my young mind. Which caused me to have insecurities, confidence issues and low self esteem.
Looking back I wish I had someone to encourage the younger version of myself to stand in confidence and self love. To hold my head up high despite what others have to say because they’re just projecting their own insecurities on to me.
I wish I had someone to tell me to keep smiling and working on being the best version of myself. To block out the haters because “what other people say about you is their reality, not yours.”
Someone to remind me that I have to love, cherish and fall madly in love with the person I see in the mirror everyday.
Low self esteem will have you believing thoughts about yourself that aren’t even true. It took me a very long time to heal my low self esteem and confidence issues. So, the journey will definitely not be easy but it will definitely be worth it. You will find so much joy and peace once you’ve taken the steps to truly heal yourself.
“The more you love yourself, the less nonsense you’ll tolerate from others.”
What others used against me to tear down my confidence I turned into something positive. Despite what the world said I knew they were all lies because “I am beautiful, worthy and was created for a specific purpose.”
Continue to be the beautiful soul that you are inside and out. Forget what ANYBODY has to say because you know WHO you are! Now, let’s show the world the beautiful and confident person that you are becoming. 🙂
There are 10 self care practices that I do on a daily which helps boost my self love within myself. Click this link to be redirected to my blog post to begin your journey of self healing and love: https://xoxomissy.blog/2021/04/07/10-ways-to-love-yourself-every-day/
“The level up is about improving not impressing. Show yourself that you can get better. It’s you vs. you at the end of the day.” – Unknown As a feminine woman one of the most important things you must take pride in is your appearance. You must take care of yourself from the inside as … Continue reading 15 Simple Ways To Look And Feel More Feminine
15 Items Every Woman Should Carry In Her Purse
Below, I have a list of 15 items that every woman should carry inside of her purse. Also included are the links where you can buy some of my favorite products I love to carry around with me. If you would like to purchase any items just click on the picture or links. Happy shopping 🙂
1. Cell Phone Charger
You should never go out in public with a cellphone that is not charged at all times.
2. Lip Gloss
Keeping your lips soft and moisturized is important.
Having crusty hands is never a good look.
Working with children I always make sure to have pain relievers with me.
5. Gum or Mint
Fresh breath is a must when out and about.
6. Hand Sanitizer
Germs, Germs, Germs. That is all I have to say.
7. Mini Mirror
To make sure you are still looking flawless throughout the day.
8. Feminine Pouch
Mother nature can be very unpredictable so keep a feminine pouch with pads and wipes just in case.
9. Wallet With Cash
Never leave the house without cash, ID/License and your wallet.
A woman’s best friend is good smelling perfume.
11. Hair Brush or Comb
To make sure your hair is well kept.
12. Self Defense Weapons
Make sure you are well protected at all times.
Mini alarms: Safe Sound Personal Alarm
pepper spray: Pepper Spray
Taser: Stun Gun & LED Flashlight
13. Pen Or Pencil
Just in case you have to sign a check 🙂
14. Extra Earrings
Keep an extra pair in your purse for times when you mistakenly lose a pair.
Never know when you will need tissue.
Find your rainbow after the “Storm.” Any person who is blessed to still be walking this earth has been through many challenging times. During the “storms of life” you have to love yourself a little more. You have to have hope and faith to keep fighting for the rainbow after the storm. We all know … Continue reading Finding The Rainbow After The Storm
20 Lessons In Life That I’ve Learned The Hard Way
“…When life is good, make sure you enjoy and receive it full and when life is not good, remember that it will not last forever and better days are on the way.” – Jenni Young
Not every relationship and friendship will last “forever.” Some people will only be in your life for a season.
Love is such a beautiful emotion but it can also be very painful at the same time.
Nothing in life will be handed to you. You will have to work hard for everything you want.
Life is not always fair but be grateful, blessed and continue to make the best out of it.
Not everyone is going to be happy and supportive for the blessings you receive.
You will always be your number one supporter.
Your happiness should be your number one priority. You are the most important person in your life.
First appearances are extremely important so always show up and show out.
You have to stand up for your beliefs and values or you’ll fall for anything.
Life is very unpredictable so appreciate your loved ones while they are here.
People will take advantage of you if they can so stick up for yourself.
Apologies don’t mean anything if the behavior is still the same.
The people you hold close to your heart will hurt you the most.
Trust takes a while to build but seconds to be broken.
Without God nothing is possible.
Don’t ever get to comfortable in life. Your life can change within the blink of an eye.
Stop going above and beyond for jobs that will easily replace you.
Protect your heart and well being at all cost.
Self love is so damn important.
Hurt people, hurt people.
1. Get Rid Of All Negative Energy The first key to being happy this spring is to remove yourself from any and all negative energy. You can do this by doing a deep clean of your house from top to bottom, meditation or simply removing negative people from your life. Negative energy will only hinder … Continue reading 5 Ways To Be Happy This Spring
1. He/She can’t be trusted. Trust is an important factor in any relationship you have with another person. If you do not trust a person you will constantly be on edge and you’ll never be completely comfortable within the relationship. Just like the saying goes “without trust there is no US.” Don’t allow yourself to … Continue reading 5 Signs That You Need To Breakup
Something went wrong. Please refresh the page and/or try again.