“I am good enough. I will always be good enough. No one can take my greatness away from me.”
As humans when something goes wrong in life we automatically blame ourselves for the demise of the relationship. For this blog, I wanted to talk about the heart break we experience when losing someone important in our lives.
I’m here to tell you that there will always be a rainbow after the storm.
One of the cons of life is that people will come and go out of your life. The scariest part is that we don’t know who is only in our lives for a season. Rather it’s losing a friendship or relationship they both hurt the same. I know it may feel like the end of the world losing someone that had a major impact in your life. Losing someone who you have invested time and energy into but don’ t blame yourself entirely for relationships that have went bad or ended without notice. Life is unpredictable and things happen!
Love can hurt and people will defiantly disappoint you as life goes by! That’s just life! The number one thing we have to always remember is that no matter what happens in life don’t allow anyone to take your joy!
Stop trying to find happiness in others and seek it within yourself. Your friends, family or spouse can’t make you happy! That’s an emotion that you have to dig deep and find within yourself.
Don’t question yourself you’re good enough!
You have to love yourself a little more during these difficult times. You have to allow certain people and situations to leave when their season is over in your life. Heart break is not a good feeling. Mostly everyone has experienced this pain. I know I’ve had my share of broken relationships and friendships. I had to learn that no matter how much you love a person don’t force any relationship because everything will work itself out. If the relationship or friendship was causing more pain than happiness be glad that it has ran it’s course.
Life is to short trying to hold onto the “why’s” in life. “Why didn’t my relationship work out?” or “Why did this happen to me?” Stop thinking about the past and holding on to the “what if’s” and move on. Once I grasped that concept I started to see my rainbow after the storm.
Everything is going to be okay with time, patience and healing. Think about the others that have come and go in your life. Where are they now? I’m sure you thought you wouldn’t be able to live without them but look at you now still living and shit.
Once you are done crying your last tears know that everything will be alright! Every person in your life is placed there for a specific reason. It’s okay to be sad now but don’t allow the hurt to consume your life.
I truly do believe that if someone is meant to be in your life they will be there. Despite what may happen nothing will be able to take away anything that is meant for you! What is for you is for you and no one can take it away!
Be thankful for the removal of a person who wasn’t meant to grow with you to the next stage of your life. It may not feel good right now but you will make it through this! No burden is placed on you that you can not handle.
You are good enough! You will find your rainbow after the storm.
Keep your head up 🙂