“If you want to be happy learn to be alone without being lonely. Learn that being alone does not mean being unhappy. The world is full of plenty of interesting and enjoyable things to do ❤️“
You’re on social media and everyday you see couples getting married, building families, buying homes and it’s a bittersweet moment for you. Seeing others being in happy relationships and you’re still struggling to find someone who is compatible. You’re thinking about giving up on love and worried that you will be alone forever. That you will always be a bridesmaid and never the bride.
If this describes you don’t worry your time will come if it’s meant for you to be a bride! Until then learn to embrace the single journey. When you’re single you don’t have to worry about someone else which means more freedom and independence. You create your own rules and can go and come as you please.
Being alone doesn’t always have to be a bad thing. During your singleness continue to work on yourself. Working on yourself gives you a chance to figure out who you are. Knowing yourself is more than just the physical. Use this time to reflect on the mistakes from past relationships so it will not happen again. Figure out what you want, need and desire out of a relationship during this time.
Being in a relationship isn’t the most important thing in life. Stop worrying about your love life and start focusing on other aspects like yourself. Once you do that everything else will fall into place. Remember “what’s meant for you will always be for you no one can take that away.” If you are meant to be a bride your time will come one day. Your perfect person is somewhere out there waiting for you. Be happy with being the bridesmaid until it’s time for you to become the bride.