Five reasons why your friend is not your friend…


We have all heard the saying “some people come in your life for a reason and others for a season.” Well it’s time to get rid of the “others.”

Below is a list of FIVE reasons why your friend is not your friend:

1. Never supports you.

They’re never around when you need them the most. They are also not supportive of your accomplishments and goals.

“A friend is someone who accepts your past, supports your present and encourages your future.”

2. Only calls when they need a favor.

Only hear from them when they need you but is never around when you are in need.

“Some people will only “love you” as much as they can use you. Their loyalty ends where the benefits stop.”

3. Makes the friendship about themselves.

The friendship is one sided. Instead of listening and being there they’re always making the situation about themselves.

“Sometimes we expect more from others because we would be willing to do that much for them.”

4. You can’t be yourself around them.

They’re always finding flaws and being judgmental. There is nothing worst than being in a relationship where you have to pretend.

“Never lose yourself while trying to hold on to someone who doesn’t care about losing you…”

5. Disrespects you.

They’re always making side remarks, constantly being negative and putting you down. The WORST friend to have.

A friend is someone who supports, encourages and motivates you. A friend should never hurt or disrespect you. It’s better to have a circle filled with positive vibes. Than a circle filled with fake friends who don’t have your best interests at heart.


Love, 3 


“The biggest mistake I have made in my life is letting people stay in my life far longer than they deserved to.”

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