“If you want to be happy learn to be alone without being lonely. Learn that being alone does not mean being unhappy. The world is full of plenty of interesting and enjoyable things to do.❤️”
You’re on social media and everyday you see happy couples. Your friends and family are getting married. It’s a bittersweet moment for you. Seeing others being in happy relationships, getting married, having children, and you’re still struggling to find someone who is compatible. You have given up on love, you’re terrified and scared that you will be alone forever. I know the feeling because I use to feel this way. I was worried that I’d always be a bridesmaid and never someone’s wife.
During my single journey I came to the conclusion that being alone doesn’t have to be a bad thing. I mean you learn how to love yourself. You don’t have to worry about someone else. More freedom and independence. You create your own rules and can go and come as you please. There is less drama in your life. You learn your worth, value and have a chance to work on yourself. Working on yourself gives you a chance to figure out who you are. Knowing yourself is more than just the physical. A person has to know what they want, need and desire. You learn the good and bad about yourself.
I’ve learned that being in a relationship isn’t the most important thing in a persons life. I stopped worrying about my love life and started focusing on other aspects in my life. So, I made sure that I started to focus on myself. If a person does not love themselves how are they able to love someone else. I had to learn to become okay with being alone. Your Mr. Right is somewhere out there waiting for you. Stop worrying about being alone and start focusing on your future. You will have the perfect spouse and your dream wedding soon. God already has it worked out. Be happy with being the bridesmaid until it’s time for you to become the bride.